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Make Your Own Choice
I was recently called out on holding a supposedly strongly stance against marriage. Since it happened twice in one month, I feel like something I said was actually lost in translation.  I neve...

What’s the deal with meditation?
I don’t know what it’s like everywhere else, but here in the US, meditation has become very popular, to the point where companies hire teachers to give...

Give What You Get
A week ago, I got a text message from a guy I went on a date with… a year before. I didn’t expect to hear from him again (which is why I deleted his number), so I was pretty surprised.&...

How I Decided To Give Up This Beauty Race
It happens that I’ve been spending a lot of time on the Upper East Side recently, and must say one thing – there are a lot of fake faces out there. And it really annoys ...

Where Are You From?...Who Cares?
I can’t believe I have to write about this again, but it just bothers me so much, so here we go. Racism is alive and homophobia is alive, and if you think differently, you’re delusional&...

Step 61 - Find Your Lifestyle
As I said in one of my recent posts – the world has changed and the way we live has changed. I honestly think it’s time to reevaluate some ideas and solutions about the life we want to l...

Do you even want to get married?
I’ve been thinking a lot about marriage recently (not about my own), because suddenly I spend a lot of time talking to married guys (just as friends). And I started to come...

What Does It Mean To Be Successful? My Five Years In NYC
It’s been five years since I decided to live in NY. These were five difficult years, and yet ones filled many amazing moments and great people I’ve met along the way. But five years i...

Step 60 - What Does It Really Mean To Leave Your Comfort Zone?
“Leaving the comfort zone” became a very common phrase these past few years. It is associated with the idea of breaking free from the life you’ve had so far – with sta...

Choose Your Own Relationship
I’m single so – naturally – I do think about guys and relationships. I’ve been thinking a lot of what type of a guy would actually make me want to be in a relationship. An...

Step 59 - How Many (Facebook) Friends Do You Need?
  I remember when Facebook first came into our lives, we were all kind of proud of the fact that our friend count was growing. The more there is social media in our lives, th...

Step 58 - Are You Able To Let Your Old Self Go?
I’m lucky enough to have a few friends whom I can share my fears, tears and happy moments with. These are friends with whom I can go through any emotional rollercoaster. It’s very...
2016-03-02 It's all about sex

Fear vs. Happiness. Why Stay Stuck In a Bad Relationship?


I haven’t been in a relationship in a while, since I focused on discovering who I am and developing a relationship with myself and with the city – as well as on simply surviving in NYC. Given all that, some people will probably say I have no business giving my opinions on relationships. Maybe so, but I’m gonna give one anyway. I am looking from the side, I look from a different
2016-02-28 It's all about sex

Will The Cheaters Keep On Cheating?


As I sat at Starbucks yesterday waiting for my friend, I overheard a loud conversation between two baristas. I don’t know why, but suddenly I turned their way and one of them, a handsome guy in his early twenties (who earlier addressed me as “madam”, which only goes to prove you won’t cheat your wrinkles), asked me: “Do you agree with me?”. When I admitted I h
2016-02-11 It's all about sex

Booty Call


Being single is shrouded in many myths, but the biggest one is the one regarding sex. Couples tend to think that we single people have someone new every night (wishful thinking). Sure, we would like that, but it’s more complicated than you’d think (we have our careers to focus on, after all). As I started writing down my thoughts on the world of single people’s sex life, I ins
2016-01-24 It's all about sex

Dating is Hard Work


How does look a date in New York look like? Why even ask about it? Are you familiar with the saying: “It’s the journey that matters, not the destination?”. Hell, yeah: you better remember that one if you start dating in NYC. You meet a guy. HE’S STRAIGHT! Yup, it can really happen! You exchange numbers, he says something about a meeting. Magic, isn’t it?! It even l
2015-12-23 It's all about sex

Where To Meet a Guy?


East Village Every time I hear the question: “Where do I meet a guy?”, I smile. I wrote about that already. What do you mean: where? Girl, go to a bar! Not to a club where everyone is dancing like crazy and you can never be sure just how much coke has anyone snorted (for some reason, coke seems to be all the rage). Go to a bar. And don’t take your girlfriends with you, so that
2015-12-14 It's all about sex

Do You Know Who You Are And What You Need? Whoopi Goldberg’s Thoughts on Relationships


I just finished reading Whoopi Goldberg’s book “I Someone Says ‘You Complete Me’, Run!”, which made me nod in astonishment as I read it. Not because Whoopi has opened some new horizons for me, but because I had the feeling I wrote the book myself. The famous actress writes about her observations of relationships, which she made quite a few since she started to host
2015-12-02 It's all about sex

„Honestly, Why Don’t You Have a Boyfriend?”


“But honestly: Why don’t you have a boyfriend/husband?” is one of those boomerang questions I keep getting and I keep not understanding, like the artist I wrote about in my previous post. First of all: what kind of question is that? Are we being born with a guy at our side, who then falls off? Or do you get a boyfriend the way you acquire knowledge during your school years, an
2015-11-22 It's all about sex

„Hey, Where Are You Going? It’s Friday Night In New York City”


It’s Friday night in New York City. You just had one of those pleasant evenings of hanging out with friends, you went to a couple of nice places, you had two drinks and you float towards the subway as it carried aloft by an invisible cloud. And suddenly you realize, you’re in Manhattan (believe it or not, but you can forget about it at times), right in the middle of one of the most b

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