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Don’t judge by the chapter you walked into.
It’s a new year, so I want you to change one thing. I would say “we,” but I’ve already been working on it the last two years (not that I’ve mastered it yet). Don’...

Why Some Women Don’t Want to Have Kids (And Why the Reason Is Not What You Think It Is)
Yes, I want to write about it (again), because it bothers me. I recently realized I don’t want to have kids (now and maybe ever). And I realized how difficult it is for a woman not only to adm...

You’re Fine
2018 has been a very successful year for me, because I finally understand that I’m completely fine. I just look at myself and I finally see myself. It took me half my life to understand it, bu...

It’s Profound to Be Understood
As Whoopi Goldberg said in her book „If He Says: ‚You complete me’ — Run!”, which I’ve already written about on JLNY some time ago, people tend to mistake love fo...

You’re Always Becoming
Michelle Obama released her book memoir, „Becoming”, and I keep seeing it everywhere in NYC. I haven’t read it yet and now I really want to. Not because I consider Barack Obam...

Drop This Attitude
I just had my best friend Gosia visited me from Chicago a few weeks ago. We spent the whole weekend together excited about each other. We did a few activities, but what was the most important was th...

Is Your Partner’s Skin Color or Country of Origin Relevant At All?
I will answer the titular question right away: „I don’t think so”. And I’m pretty sure I am right. I honestly don’t understand this whole theory about having a partner ...

How To Get the Body You Want
Have you ever said to yourself: “I’m so fat”…? Or “I can’t even look at myself”…?. Or “I will never lose all this weight”…? Or &l...

Accept the challenge
Until now, my favorite sentence was always: “Hope he’ll change after we get married.” (Yeah,  sure, into a pumpkin…) But there is a new contender that I find equally ...

NY Love Story A.D. 2019
I don’t like romantic comedies. And I can tell you why. Once, it used to be my favorite genre, but I grew up since then (a bit). Also — I moved to NY. Romantic comedies just don’t ...

When Was the Last Time Your Journal Embarrassed You?
When was the last time you said to yourself: “This is embarrassing”, and you actually meant yourself…? Well, it just happened to me. I sat down to write about something else and I...

Why It’s Important To Not Look Like Shit
Here is my question: Why do you think it’s a good idea to look like shit at home? Some people put on their worst clothes at home - clothes with holes, stretched out, worn out, old and ugly. (B...
2016-10-06 It's all about sex

What are your standards?


Women are weird and they have the strange tendency to complicate things when it comes to relationships with men. I can say that, because I’m a woman and I’ve made things complicated in my past too. Everything would be easier if women just had the courage to say out loud what they really need and expect from men. You meet a guy, he sends you a red flag or two right away, and instead o
2016-09-13 It's all about sex

The opposites attract and there is a reason for that


I just heard a sentence that made my brain spin around and my head move like a surprised puppy when you start talking to him as if he was a human being. I bet you all heard it before: Opposites attract. It’s been known and believed in forever – people are attracted to each other because they’re so different from each other. It creates this huge passion; this strong force that m
2016-08-01 It's all about sex

Why Do We Like Going on Dates and Why We End Up Not Really Liking It At All


I already wrote on Just Like NY that dating in NYC is hard, but I also said that I advise you to try. You should experience dating when you start living in this city. Because of a few reasons. 1. Because you don’t want to miss the variety NYC offers. It would be a real shame not to take advantage of it. You come to the city of beautiful people from all different countries – just ha
2016-06-14 It's all about sex

What Stops Us From Having Sex?


There are a lot of myths about single women. One of them is that we are constantly having sex. We are not that lucky… but we could be if we only wanted it. Or if we were always prepared. What I learned in NYC is that you never know the day or the hour, so you always have to be ready. I don’t exaggerate. You never know who and when you meet and how it ends up. There is one crucial qu
2016-05-26 It's all about sex

A Guy Stopped Calling? Maybe It’s Your Fault?


I adore women. I think they have a lot to offer, they are not appreciated enough and they keep underestimating themselves. Even though my dream is to one day create a movement that helps them to express themselves and to become whom they really want to be, I must admit that there are moments when I just want to kick them in the butt. I openly admit that there are times when I truly don’t u
2016-04-24 It's all about sex

Women Want To Have Sex


Spring is here, so it’s high time to write about sex. I simply have to. I think it’s also time to forget the myth that’s been circulating for a while now, concerning sex and women. It just ruins our image. The myth says that we supposedly want sex differently than men, that “we have more feelings involved and we always put too much emotion into it”. I even heard tha
2016-04-20 It's all about sex

Those Horrible Dick Pics


What is it with these dick pics anyway? Who told the guys that it’s not only a good, but an excellent idea to send a pic of their penises to girls? It’s a real plague nowadays. Two years ago, I was using an online dating site and I gave my number to a few guys. At some point, I just started asking them: “Please, spare me a pic of your penis” (I am being serious). Once a g
2016-03-07 It's all about sex

My Online Dating Experience


I recently wrote of what does it feel like to arrive in NYC and get swept off one’s feet. After my first couple of months here, my friend talked me into putting up a profile on one of the dating websites, telling me how much fun it was. Of course, I was too lazy to take care of it myself, so she created the profile for me at the aptly named “Plenty of Fish” platform. I have to

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